Last Paper Syndrome : Kahwin? Err...!

This is my first and maybe my last post about marriage.

Ayah memahami perasaan dan kehendak along dan angahnya.
Terima kasih ayah kerana memahami.
Ahaha.
Kawin?
Nak kawin dengan sapa la angah oi..
Ni diri sendiri pun tak mampu nak jaga, ada hati nak jaga orang lain?
Iman sendiri pun terkontang kanting lagi ada hati nak tolong jaga iman abang ipar hang nanti?
*pengsan*

Sorry. That is not my focus yet. For me, marriage is not a game that we can play, laugh and then quit. It is such a relationship which helps two people going to one and only destination which is mardhotillah. It is a complementation between two souls which have a strong and same mission.

We better set our destination first rather than trying so hard to find our partner. It is a matter of time. If Allah says 'kun' then 'fayakun'.
Trust Him.

Trust me. We got many other things to think. We got many missions have yet to be completed.

The most important thing is our understanding on it and how we prepare ourselves to become a good one rather than ‘busy’ on finding a good one. Yes, you must find. That is included in our muwasofat tarbiyah. But remember, that is just 'alat' not our 'matlamat'.

Aduhai..panjang ceramah hajar.

Enough. For those who ask me about marriage,  I will show them my parents, my siblings, our ummat here and there. They need me more.

Yes. Marriage is included in my planning. Planning is a must. If the time comes, so that is what we call rezki. Accept it. But still, marriage is just a tool not a destination.
Our final destination is Him.
You girls, better find out how to love Allah first.
Then love your parents and siblings.
Then love yourself.
Later, inshaAllah Allah will send someone who loves you because of Him too.

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Al kisah, angah nak kenakan along, akhirnya angah kena balik!
Sorry. Kali ni ayah berpihak kepada along.

>_<

Nota kaki : Dear girls, boleh cuba baca kisah Zainab Al-Ghazali. Best!
:)
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